• One Thing or Another Podcast

    One Thing or Another Podcast #68: A Conversation with Steve Dolainski, Guided Autobiography Instructor

    It’s a real treat to talk to Steve Dolainski, my friend of many years now, who introduced me to my new path as a workshop and class facilitator! I met Steve over a decade ago. We co-edited and published an anthology of LGBTQ writers over 50, including several who have become my friends. Outer Voices Inner Lives was a Lambda Literary Award finalist for anthology, and includes a foreword by the late, great, Patricia Nell Warren.

    Fast forward ten years, and I finally had the pleasure of meeting Steve in person on a trip to California. He told me he’d become a certified Guided Autobiography instructor and was conducting classes with the LGBTQ Center in L.A. I was hooked! I’m certified myself now too, and looking forward to my third act (as Jane Fonda calls life after 65), offering workshops and classes in Guided Autobiography and fiction writing (YourWritePath.com). Listen to this short interview with Steve where he talks about GAB (as we call it), making new roads to travel, and contemplating the ones we’ve already come on!

    COMING UP ON THE PODCAST:

    Rick Rose, Dane County Commissioner (Madison, WI), activist, podcast co-host
    Mark Goldstein, host of the ‘Where Do Gays Retires?’ podcast
    Nev March, author and board president for the Mystery Writers of America-NY Chapter
    Ronni Sanlo and Kelly Ward, hosts of the LGBTQ History Alive podcast

    Comments, suggestions, encouragement welcome! We’re listening.


  • Podcast Pick,  Podcast Picks

    Podcast Pick: ‘Going Hollywood’ with Brad Shreve and Tony Maietta Takes a Look at Classic TV and Film

    Talk about engaging conversation! The new podcast, Going Hollywood, is a treat for the ear, featuring co-hosts Brad Shreve and Tony Maietta. Brad is an old hand at podcasting (Queer We Are, and Queer Writers of Crime, to name two of them), and Tony Maietta is widely regarded as a top film historian. I was hooked from the minute they started talking. This is hot and fresh, and ripe for faving. Fasten your headphones!

    About Going Hollywood

    Conversations between esteemed film historian, Tony Maietta, and a passionate movie buff, Brad Shreve, about cinema and television from Hollywood’s Golden Age to contemporary hits. Whose side will you be on?  Listen as Tony and Brad discuss—and sometimes disagree on—their favorite films and TV shows. They’ll take you behind the scenes of Hollywood as they explore storytelling, casting, characters, and more.

    Current Episodes

    When Hepburn Met Capote: The Enduring Appeal of “Breakfast at Tiffany’s”

    One More Look: Analyzing the legacy of “A Star Is Born”

    Howard Bannister’s Rocks: Celebrating “What’s Up, Doc?” and “Bringing Up Baby

     

  • LGBTSR

    Biographer Gabriella Kelly-Davies Launches ‘Biographers in Conversation’ Podcast

    “In this episode of Biographers in Conversation Gabriella chats with Bernadette Brennan about her book: A Writing Life. Helen Garner and her Work, a literary portrait of one of Australia’s most vital and revered authors.”

    CLICK TO LISTEN

    About Biographers In Conversation

    Biographer Gabriella Kelly-Davies chats with biographers across the world about the multiplicity of choices they make while researching, writing and publishing life stories.

    In each episode she explores elements of narrative strategy such as structure, use of fiction techniques, facts and truth, beginnings and endings and to what extent the writer interpreted the evidence rather than providing clues and leaving it to readers to do the interpreting themselves.

    She also asks writers how they researched their books; how they balanced a subject’s public, personal and inner lives; and ethical issues such as privacy and revealing secrets.

  • LGBTSR

    Twist Podcast Co-Host Rick Rose Featured on ‘Where Do Gays Retire?’ Podcast

    I’m pleased to share that my Twist Podcast co-host Rick Rose was recently interviewed on the Where Do Gays Retire? Podcast, hosted by Mark Goldstein. LISTEN HERE.

    Summary (from Where Do Gays Retire?)

    Rick Rose, a retired producer, writer, and director, discusses his move from Shreveport, Louisiana to Madison, Wisconsin. He shares his reasons for choosing Madison and talks about the climate and amount of snow in the area. Rick also discusses the LGBTQ+ community in Madison and the absence of a specific gayborhood.

    He highlights the growth and economy of Madison, the ease of making friends, and the presence of arts and culture in the city.

    Rick also mentions the local food and dining scene in Madison. Madison, Wisconsin has a vibrant arts and entertainment scene, with a thriving comedy community and a diverse range of performances and events.

    The city also has a strong public transportation system, with options for biking, electric transportation, and plans for an Amtrak center.

    Healthcare in Madison is highly regarded, with access to quality providers and affordable insurance options.

    While crime exists, Madison is considered a safe city overall. The city also has a significant Native American community and is working towards preserving and promoting Native American culture and tourism.

  • Cathy's Wealth of Health,  LGBTSR

    Cathy’s Wealth of Health: Healing the Liver in Spring

     

    By Cathy McNease, Dipl CH, RH

    Healing the Liver in Spring

    Spring has arrived with its chirping baby birds, windy weather and multitudes of fragrant blossoms. The Spring is associated with the Wood Element (Liver and Gall Bladder). We will be the healthiest when we attempt to attune our energies to that of the natural seasons around us. Imagine your energy is like that of a tree – if you observe the natural flow of the tree’s Qi (vital energy) through the seasons, you get an idea of being in harmony with Nature. In the winter the energy is deep in the trunk and roots, storing up for seasons to come. In spring the tree’s Qi (vital energy) moves upward and outward to the branches, forming buds.

  • One Thing or Another Podcast

    One Thing or Another Podcast Relaunches: An Interview with Robert Kesten, Executive Director of the Stonewall National Museum, Archives, and Library

    It’s back! The One Thing or Another Podcast, reimagined, reemerged, and reinvigorated with a focus on “life, aging, and the absurdities of it all.” Listen in to this recent chat with Robert Kesten, Executive Director of the Stonewall National Museum, Archives, and Library in Ft. Lauderdale, FL. We talk about the need to preserve our history, the mission of the Stonewall Museum, and how we can sustain an awareness of our past and present in a way that informs our future.

    About Robert Kesten

    Robert Kesten (he/him/his) has worked globally promoting the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and furthering democracy. This work has taken many forms including writing and producing an award winning documentary on learning about the Holocaust at the Concentration Camps in Poland, Working on the Ghanaian Constitution, coordinating and producing events leading to Ukrainian independence, producing events for the first AIDS day treatment center in the nation, pushing for the decriminalization of homosexuality in Ukraine (the first Soviet Republic to do so).

    Kesten comes to Stonewall National Museum and Archives with national and international experience, taking ideas and bringing them to life. This position brings full circle his active engagement in the LGBTQ+ community and his commitment to using history as a tool to make sense and fashion a response to today and tomorrow.

  • LGBTSR,  One Thing or Another Column

    One Thing or Another: Pills for All Our Ills

    One Thing or Another … a lighthearted look at life, aging, and the absurdities of it all.

    Mark McNease

    Too many episodes of heartburn after a meal? It must be GERD! Cholesterol numbers not what they should be? Here’s a statin!

    I don’t know about your doctor—how could I?—but my primary care physician is one of those nice, softspoken, well-meaning doctors with a great office manner who reacts to every ill I present him with by prescribing some new medication. Most recently, it was something for Restless Leg Syndrome, which I dutifully took as prescribed for several weeks while I kept reading about its applications and side effects. Two things stood out: it can increase my risk of deadly melanoma, and it shouldn’t be stopped without first weaning off it for an extended period of time. Hmm, I thought, finger to lips while I processed this information. I’m not interested in making myself more vulnerable to skin cancer than I already am, as a fair-skinned older man of British and Irish descent. And I really don’t want to take something I can’t decide to stop taking without lowering the dose first over a period of weeks. I don’t have the patience for it, and I don’t like anything that can have its hooks that deeply into me.

    Of course I stopped on my own, with just a day of real or imagined discomfort. The bigger issue for me is that my doctor, like too many others, made no attempt to determine if I do, in fact, have Restless Leg Syndrome. This kind of instant diagnosis happens all the time. Too many episodes of heartburn after a meal? It must be GERD! Cholesterol numbers not what they should be? Here’s a statin!

  • LGBTSR

    YourWritePath Workshops Coming in May and June

    Things are kicking into high gear. I’ll be offering four more 2-hour workshops (May 4 Fiction Essentials is full!). Follow the links beneath each description to register. Two are online, two are in-person (the Fiction Essentials workshop on June 9 is for congregants of the First Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Hunterdon County, where I’m a member).

    Storytelling is healing. As we reveal ourselves in story, we become aware of the continuing core of our lives under the fragmented surface of our experience. We become aware of the multifaceted, multi-chaptered ‘I’ who is the storyteller. We can trace out the paradoxical and even contradictory versions of ourselves that we create for different occasions, different audiences… Most important, as we become aware of ourselves as storytellers, we realized that what we understand and imagine about ourselves is a story. And when we know all this, we can use our stories to heal and make ourselves whole.”

    —Susan Wittig Albert, Writing From Life

  • Book Reviews,  LGBTSR

    Book Review: Here We Go Again, by Alison Cochrun

     

    By Terri Schlichenmeyer
    The Bookworm Sez

    “Here We Go Again” by Alison Cochrun
    c.2024, Atria  $17.99   368 pages

    … Joe didn’t want to die surrounded by hospital walls. Would Logan and Rosemary drive him and his dog to Maine, to a cabin he owned? Would they spend time crammed side-by-side in a used van with a gay logo, keeping Joe alive, coast-to-coast? Could they do it without screaming the whole way?

    Can you do me a solid?

    Just one little favor, a quick errand, it won’t take long. You can do it next time you’re out, in fact. Consider it your good deed for the day, if it makes you feel better. A mitzvah. An indulgence to a fellow human. As in the new novel, Here We Go Again” by Alison Cochrun, think of it as a life-changing thing.

    She couldn’t remember the woman’s first name.

    Did Logan Maletis really ever know it? Everybody at her job – administration, students, other teachers – called everyone else by their last name so the colleague she’d been hooking up with for weeks was just “Schaffer.” Whatever, Logan didn’t care and she wasn’t cold-hearted but when Savannah broke up with her in public, she did wonder if maybe, possibly, the awful names she called Logan were fair or true.

    Rosemary Hale would’ve agreed with every single last one of those nasty names.